Lessons from Manveen Sandhu: A Student’s Tribute (part 1)

My role-model, my inspiration…. Manveen ma’am, the lady I’ve admired with growing respect and gratitude. She founded the essence of the modern Spring Dale School Senior School, one of the best schools in India. Unlike most other principals who are happy with a school generating annual score-cards, Manveen ma’am went a step beyond toward enhancing life experience through education.

Not only was she an enthusiastic reader of science, literature, history and law, she always picked up the best ideas from all fields and implemented them in practical life. She would read something as obscure as chaos (physics) and then share a presentation on how it manifests in everyday life and affects it. She would practice day and night before a meeting, a school function, a presentation… “Saurabh, I’ve always wanted everything associated with my name to be an outcome of best effort”, she would tell me. She read Shakespeare, she read Vivekananda, she read Gandhi, she read nietzsche… and gave her students a practical insights from all these streams of knowledge. Studying in her school was a great experience — one got to re-live and enact the history of the world, learn not only about Indian culture but also Persian, African, and Western.

I can go on and on. My experience with ma’am, I say this with humble gratitude, has been truly a gift. Even years after I’ve graduated from school, she has been kind enough to share her insights with me. Today, even as she is physically no more with us (the unfortunate accident), it is time for me to share some of her lessons. I hope that they inspire others just as they have inspired me .

I will post these messages in a 2-part series. The first one, below, is part of an email I received from ma’am on Feb 27, 2007:

Dear Saurabh,

Thank you for such a lovely mail. At the end of the day what really matters to the teacher is the love and respect of the student. Your understanding of the mammoth task of taking the responsibility of the lives of the students and not impartation of the curriculum seems to have eased out the painstaking hard work of the years.

Let me share a few important things that I learnt in the last 20 years.
The road to success is actually paved with small obstacles that need to be overcome on a day to day basis. If not sorted they get magnetically bonded to form a big boulder that obstructs your passage beyond redemption.

Dream big but think small.
When you set your target on small goals even the bigger mission starts falling in place.
Whenever you are undecided about a task think-Does this harm me or anyone else? If not- do it. Don’t ask-Does it benefit me or not?

And the last golden rule:
Essentially you are alone in this world. Never have expectations from anyone else but yourself. Everything is transient. Change is the only constant. What you want today you might outgrow tomorrow but don’t deny yourself today because only then shall you outgrow tomorrow.

To come into the real world rather than the philosophical one. Money is very important. Earn it the right way- it will always be enough. Earn it the wrong way- it will never be enough. First earn it and invest it, then spend it and share it. If you use it wisely you shall be its master but if you squander it you will always be its slave.

So part one “Earn it and invest it” should be your plan one where in you provide for yourself and your family. The second part that will probably come 20 years later “Spend it and share it” will be your time for philanthropy and social responsibility. Yes, it is better not to depend on external avenues because you will have to do what you are asked to do and not what you want to do.

Keep in touch constantly.
With lots of love and best wishes


3 thoughts on “Lessons from Manveen Sandhu: A Student’s Tribute (part 1)

  1. sorry to hear about your principal ghaalib…in so many ways you are truly blessed to have known such a remarkable lady. she has made you who you are..and in you..and through your words..her legacy will live on…

  2. Madaan bhai.. ur respect n affection to your mam touched me deep yaar.. m really sorry to hear that yaar.. bt good that she tought u quality lessons in lyf which are worth embracing.. Sidharth…

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